Well this is how I found my PIN to pass it on to my friend so we can have BlackBerry text conversations for free.
My BlackBerry is the Curve 8310 model. (In short to find your PIN it's simply Applications -> Options -> Status and you'll see it on the Status Screen). I however got a little confused and I thought I had to do it inside BlackBerry Messenger Application so here are the detailed steps)
Start from the main screen, hit the "Applications" button shown (on the left image, it's highlighted)
Then scroll down and select "Options" (it's the icon that looks like a wrench).
Once inside "Options", scroll down to "Status" line item (near the very bottom of the list, here it is shown as the last item on the page)
Select "Status" and you should see a line item on your list that is the "PIN"Now I can give my friend this PIN so he can add me as a BlackBerry Messenger contact.